



Updated: December 15, 2025. Reviewer: Dr. Rose Sebastian, Ed.D.
How to read, get, understand, and evaluate IEPs
How to create, teach, and thrive in inclusive classrooms
What behaviors will you focus on?
While we would love to wave a magic wand and instantly get rid of every single one of our student’s annoying behaviors that is, sadly, not how real life works. It takes time, consistency, and patience to modify behaviors. Even with those, you can’t modify every behavior at once. You have to triage. What are the behaviors that most impact that student at school? Once you have figured out what those behaviors are, you have to figure out what the kid SHOULD be doing instead. Behavior contracts are worded in the positive—what we want—not in the negative. Then, finally, you have to pre-teach and re-teach what behaviors you are looking for. So let’s get started!
Sometimes this is super obvious. If a kid is punching other students in line, target safety. In fact, if the student has any unsafe behaviors (running out of the classroom, hitting/kicking, climbing things) target those first. If the unsafe behaviors are pretty rare, you can include one or two other behaviors on the contract as well.
For non-safety behaviors, think through what is most impacting the student’s success at school. Is it academic behaviors like not turning in homework or classwork? Is it social behaviors like insulting other kids or getting in their space? Is it disrespectful behaviors like swearing or arguing with teachers?
To figure out what behaviors to target, talk to people. When teachers are frustrated with a student they will complain. What behaviors do they complain the most about? What do other students tattle tale the most about? What does the student themselves say is their most challenging behavior?
Come up with a list and then pick two or three that seem the most important.
Here are some examples:
Negative Behavior Positive Behavior
Hitting other students Keep hands to self
Leaving the classroom Stay with the group/ Be where you are supposed to be
Swearing Use respectful language
Staring at space in class Try your best in class
Not doing any work Complete classwork
Not turning in homework Turn in homework
Late to everything Be on time
Start by choosing how often your student needs their behaviors reinforced– is it immediately? Daily? Weekly? When a sheet is filled up? Once you know that, you are ready to pick a time frame for your behavior contract!




Choose the reinforcements
Behavior contracts are part of a positive approach to behaviors. Instead of focusing on what we can take away from kids when they make bad choices we focus on how we can reinforce their good choices. The fact is that we can only take away so much—there aren’t that many recesses in a day, field trips to miss, or times a parent will answer the phone when we call raving. Rewarding kids is a lot easier because there is almost an infinite list of ways we can reinforce them. Talk with a kid about what they want to earn—but make sure you have some ideas of what you CAN give a kid. All kids probably want $100 to spend at Target or a new gaming system but you probably aren’t actually going to give them that….
Here are some places to print money:
Hit up co-workers
Sell copied/printed coloring pages
Print off a bunch of popular singers/superheroes/cute animal coloring pages. Make a few copies and sell them. We also make copies of the pretty mancala style pages that older students like.
Places to get printable coloring pages:
Sell song lyrics
This sounds weird but kids really like to buy song lyrics. For a price, they can tell you what lyrics they want you to print. We sell each song’s lyrics for $10.
Places to get printable song lyrics:
Sell coupons
Students LOVE coupons. You can sell coupons for writing in pen, sitting in a teacher’s chair, getting a phone call home—pretty much anything! I keep mine in a binder. There are lots of pictures on the internet of fancy, color printed and laminated coupons in cute bins. If you have that much time, more power to you. Mine are black and white copies in sheet protectors in a binder. It took me about ten minutes to set up—including the copying and cutting.
Places to get free, printable coupons:
How often will you check in with the student?
When you write a behavior contract, you need to choose how many times a day you want to check in with a student and monitor their behavior. Behavior contracts only work when you are consistent. If you know you can’t check in with a kid after every single lesson, don’t write a contract that says you are going to check in with them at the end of every lesson!
Generally, younger and lower students need you to check in more often while older and higher functioning students are cool with you checking in less often.
You need to check in more often when you are establishing a new behavior and less often when you are maintaining the behavior.
By check in, I mean actually talk to a kid. Contracts are learning and teaching tools. Ask them how they think they did—talk with them about it and what they could do differently or did well. You secretly filling in a contract doesn’t teach the kid anything. Talk to them about what went well and what went badly and make a plan for next time. Treat behaviors like you would any other skill—do exit slips and re-teaching as needed and remember to pre-teach the hard stuff.
As a student’s behavior begins to improve, increase the time frame of their contract and decrease the check in frequency. Behavior contracts should never be fixed—they need to change as the child’s behaviors and the teacher’s available time/energy change!
No one actually knows what safe hands, nice hands, or keep hands to self really means. Keep hands to self? Can I hug my friends? Touch my markers? It is up to you and the student to negotiate a definition.
Talk though what the expected behaviors are. Use examples. Be prepared to re-teach. They will forget what you meant and forget what they are supposed to do and just generally forget stuff. The biggest aha moment for me in teaching was when I realized that it really WAS my job to repeat myself. Kids are human and need to hear things—and learn things—more than one time.
Now you are ready to start writing the contract! To get you started, download the bundle of free contracts from the store. With 15 easy to customize contracts, it should get you started!







